I am a person with neither lots of friends nor to many, but just enough. Although many would say that having a moderate amount of friends means that you have more true friends it isn't quite like that.
I am someone that does as best as he can to be as true a friend as possible and I am disappointed when people use one another for whatever reasons, or when they say that they are good friends and when you need them most, they just go have fun and don't give the slightest fuck about you.
I don't mean to say that you need to be held by my hand while you go through bad stuff, but at least they should ask you about your well being.
There are others to whom I try to be close to, beacause they are people that really can be good friends, to whom I try to be as good a friend as possible, and yet they still can't even be bothered to ask you from time to time something as simple as "How are you?".
And then there are those that are really good friends, in whom you can put your trust, and who in turn, put their trust in you, treat you as an equal and that are true to you. Sadly they are as rare as unicorns and other fictional creatures, myths. But once in a while you can improvize, and put an icecream cone on a horse and pretend it is an unicorn, as well as you can come across a friend that is't perfect (like everyone else), but who comes just that close to being a true friend. And when you come across such a person, try not to let them down, until then, be on the lookout...
luni, 14 aprilie 2014
Good friends
What if...
Have you ever just stopped and wondered what would have happened if you would have done things differently, what if you would have done all the things that you have wanted to, but never got the chance or the encouragement that you needed in order to do those things, or the things that you just can't muster the courage to do?
What if you would have chosen a different profession or a different school or even other friends to hang out with? What would happen if you suddenly decided to go on a vacation, in the middle of the school year, just because you needed to or just because you felt like it? What if you would tell the girl that you like, what you feel about her, how she makes you feel? What if you would just tell her this right now?
Who knows? That is why you humanity has evolved so much and so fast in the last century. Because we didn't just stood around, asking ourselves "What if?", but also because we went out there and found out what would happen if we just took a chance.
That's why nobody should just contemplate the "what if", but we should simply go and find out "what if".
duminică, 13 aprilie 2014
Which came first?
So, I didn't have anything else to think about, therefore my mind just wondered off and suddenly a question popped out of nowhere, a question everybody knows but probably few of us have really considered and that question is "What came first, the chicken or the egg?".
No, I have not miraculously come with an answer out of thin air, because this is a question that has a realtive answer and the relativity behind it is that you can consider it from either a theological point of view and say, as it's said in the bible and that all animals (of course, thos includes the chicken as well) have been created by some deity, and thus you can say that the chicken came first.
But you can also look at the matter from a scientifical point of view and say that the chicken came into existence, not out of the blue, but after millions of years of evolution from single cell organisms, therefore, in this case your answer is that the egg came first.
In conclusion, it is not about whether the egg or the chicken came first but wether where have we all come from, has a god created all of us, or are we the result of the Big Bang and the continual evolution that came after? Are we going to let faith happen as it might have been written or are we going to take charge of our destiny and build something extraordinary?
sâmbătă, 12 aprilie 2014
Globus(WIP)
sâmbătă, 13 octombrie 2012
School is like an earthly hell
So...we all started school and on my behalf I would really like tell a student's view of the high school so far. The colleagues are the best thing at my school because they are really cool...ok, the most of them at least.They are all very different, there are fat ones, wired ones, there is one which has so much dandruff that it would make everyone look the other way and my advice to him is... have a shower, please...for god's sake, there are smart ones, there are tall ones, there also is a skater in this hole bundle...and I think that I have included everyone in this.
Returning to my point, almost all of them are really great and this is one of the things that doesn't make me regret getting in this school. Almost all of the girls here are pretty, which is as well another pro of entering here.
The teachers are also really cool, like the maths teacher or the history teacher, which are both funny and know how to make their classes enjoyable. Oh...and finally I get to say something about the english teacher, which is awful and doesn't even know how to teach or how to make herself pleasant to her students.
All in all, I have some awesome colleagues, whit which I get along very well and I hope that everything will go as good from now on.
vineri, 22 iunie 2012
Remembering Facts: Using Mental Associative Chains
As an example in this post we will work with a person facts. Consider the bio snippet of Icelandic writer Halldór Laxness from Wikipedia:
Halldór Kiljan Laxness [ˈhaltour ˈcʰɪljan ˈlaxsnɛs] (born Halldór Guðjónsson) (April 23, 1902 – February 8, 1998) was a twentieth-century Icelandic novelist, poet, and essayist; author of Independent People, The Atom Station, and Iceland's Bell. He won the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1955.
REMEMBERING NUMBERS
| Number | Sounds | Memory tip |
| 0 | s, z, soft c | z is the first letter of zero |
| 1 | d, t, th | d and t have one downstroke |
| 2 | n | two downstrokes |
| 3 | m | 3 downstrokes |
| 4 | r | last letter of four |
| 5 | l | L is the roman 50 |
| 6 | j, sh, soft ch.. | script j looks like upside 6 |
| 7 | k, hard c, hard g, q | capital script K looks like a pair of 7's |
| 8 | v, f | think of a script f (which has two loops) |
| 9 | b, p | p is the mirror image of a 9, b is a rotation of 9 |
| - | vowels, w, h, y | WHY+vocals: use them anywhere to fill the gaps and form words |
For a while I had tried using another system: mobile phones assign to each number any of 3 letters, except for 0, 1, 7 and 9. The first two are for special signs, the two last have 4 letters. What I did was moving s to 1 and z to 0. To further simplify, I used only consonants and left away the vocals in this. But the major system is in some sense simpler, as it assigns sounds and not only letters. Let's try to use it here.
Let's start then with the date of birth, 23rd of April, 1902. The day and month are trivial to remember: it is the international book day, linked to Cervantes and Shakespeare's death dates. It is also Saint George, a special day in Catalonia. For the year, we can assume we know it is in the 20th century and only encode 02 which result in s/z/soft c + n. Two-letter combination can be tricky to come up, but we can form a few words: son, zone, ozone, sin... If we needed also the century (setting aside the fact that we could create a fixed image for 10 up to 20 to use as century indicator), 1902 would give t/d+b/p+s/z/soft c+n. As you see, forming a word with 4 letters can be even trickier: you should split them in groups of two letters.
Now, add an image to Saint George fighting the dragon. Which word to use? I'll usezone. And what is the image? Saint George (wearing a bib) is playing 1-1 basketball inside the zone being heavily guarded by a big, green dragon. The bib part is to remind me this is birth.
Now, his death 8th February 1998. We can encode month-day combinations (which are not as easy as before: always use tricks if you can) as DMM (0802 or 82) or MMDD (0208 or 28). There is some ambiguity in both choices, and as such you have to play it safe and be consistent. As a Spanish speaker, the natural way of date sorting for me is DDMM, thus I'll use 82: v/f+n. Now 1998, 98 gets b/p+v/f. An anthropomorphic phone eating beef, using as a table a tombstone.
To remember when he was given the Nobel Prize, 55 is l+l, and our writer is named Halldór Kiljan Laxness. Which happens to have two L's in the name. Here I assume I will always remember this, too and create an image of him with his prize, as a reminder that the date is hidden in him.
Let's start to form the images: Laxness sitting in the driver's seat of a pearly white Jaguar, typing furiously in a typewriter, with a Nobel prize in his lap. Behind it Saint George wearing a bib is playing a 1-on-1 basketball game, fighting to get a good position inside the zone against the dragon. Behind the car a big, anthropomorphic phone is eatingbeef (picture the beef as you enjoy it, taste it mentally... medium, rare?) and using a tombstone as table.
REMEMBERING NAMES
If there is some possibility of forgetting his nationality, use some strong related image to add to your mental placeholder. For Iceland, I could use any image of my road trip around Iceland, but a good one even if you've been there are the images of Eyjafjallajökull erupting just above the car.
We just need to place all these images around the pearly white Jaguar. We can place them in the car's back seats: the painting, a big reproduction of the church and a big red toy bus, each laying in one back seat. I'm counting here on remembering the atom part just from having the image of the Atomium and the bus implicitly. This can also lead to easier forgetting, but sometimes you have to trade off simpler images with perfect recall.
DEVELOP YOUR OWN KEYS
Can you still recall the images we have used? And still remember the major system? Remembering the major system can be the tricky part, just keep trying! If you found this post useful, please spread the word!
